Saturday, May 09, 2015

Preparing to Move...I Hate It

Things that suck about mortgages and moving

1. Waiting for the appraisal and just about everything else.

2. Home inspection...I think I just don't want to know. Anyone know any good fix-it people

3. Trying to downsize life sucks. Seriously my house is a library and I know all the books can't come with me. How in the hell do I decide the old "Should I stay or should I go" conundrum?

4. The total guilt that is consuming me about leaving the house I've lived in since I came home from the hospital in 1974.

5. Will my dad understand? I know he's gone, but this was his home since 1967. He freaking died here!! This house was his home.

6. All my previous pets with about 4 exceptions are buried in the back yard.

I am so depressed right now, I don't know where to begin. I feel like nothing is going right and I have no help from anyone.

4 comments:

Mike said...

Moving is right up there at the top of the stress list.

eViL pOp TaRt said...

Deciding what to keep and what to discard is upsetting.

rashbre said...

House moves are always stressful, especially in that limbo period when theres all the paperwork to get sorted out.

Best wishes for the move.

Bilbo said...

I actually find it pretty easy to get rid of books when it becomes absolutely necessary. If I liked it enough that I'm likely to read it again, or if it's a reference book that I use more than once a week, it stays. Otherwise, it goes. Don't stress out ... think how much better you'll feel once you get settled in the new place!