Sunday, November 16, 2014

Oh Daddy, My Daddy

Today has been the saddest day of my life.

Andrew James Guy entered immortality at 2:10 pm.

He is preceded in death by father Wilmer Guy, mother Anna Armitage, brothers Raymond Guy, David Stanley Guy, Howard Dale Guy and sisters Margaret Heider and Bertha Aileen.

He is survived by his wife of 62 years, Emma Jame Guy. His three children; Rudy Guy, Debby Leech, and Andrea Guy; his two grandsons, Raymond Leech and Michael Leech and his four granddaughters, Melanie Moyer, Monica Shope, Ali Guy and Amanda Guy, and great grandchildren, Olivia Shope, Emma Shope, William Shope, Jake Moyer and Katie Moyer. And two dear friends, Ed and Cheryl Zippay.

Andrew served in the coast guard during WWII. He is a retiree of Corning Glass Works and Charleroi Area School District.

He was a loving and devoted husband, father and friend. He loved his pets. He loved fixing things and helping others.

He was a good man who will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

Monday, November 10, 2014


I think if it weren't for Facebook and its mindless games, that I'd totally leave the internet. I have nothing to blog about anymore.

There is no happy in my life and there can't be.

There is nothing worse than watching someone you love slowly fade away.

It is horrible and it totally makes me question my belief in god.


Because I was taught there's a merciful God out there, but if God had any mercy, this wouldn't be happening to my father right now.

I don't know what to think or feel right now.

I only know that I hope when my own time comes that it is swift and it isn't this slow progression that saps the person you love from you day by day, making you suffer the loss long before it happens.

I miss my daddy.

God is not merciful. God is cruel and heartless.

Wednesday, November 05, 2014

Hump Day Hunks

Let's have some prettiness to help us get through the week.

Monday, November 03, 2014

Too Hard To Blog

I wish I could say that things are getting better, but they aren't. It is too the point that you only have to be in our house for about 5 minutes and you are exhausted.

We're considering respite in hopes that we might regain some of our sanity, but we're worried about how it will affect dad's mental state, which is pretty fragile these days. There's not much lucidity.

It puts everyone on the edge, and if you don't live with it, you can't understand.

It makes us all feel like prisoners in our own home.

You can't relax.

I can't read when I'm at home.

I can barely think when I'm at home.

I need a rest. But my rest needs to be longer than 5 days.

Thursday, October 30, 2014


 She's a cutie..and no, she isn't the one that tore apart my desk just did that on its own...I seriously need to get to Staples.

Anyone have some time they could lend me, so I could do that?

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Top Ten Tuesday

Top Ten Books/Movies To Read Or Watch To Get In The Halloween Spirit

Let's go half and half...


The lead character is called The Graveyard Queen, nuff said.

This story takes place near Salem, and it is downright creepy!

Not so much a romance, and it is really creepy.

A great holiday themed cozy to get you in the mood!

A Halloween cozy with recipes!

Now for the movies!

You will find I have a fondness for animation....

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Hump Day Hunks

Hunks that are no long with us....

At least Craig will still be bringing the laughs, but oh how I miss Robin....

Sunday, October 19, 2014

WTF John Grisham WTF

I love when celebrities say stupid things.

I'm disappointed when people that should have brains say stupid things...

Case in point,  John Grisham

"We have prisons now filled with guys my age. Sixty-year-old white men in prison who've never harmed anybody, would never touch a child," he said in an exclusive interview to promote his latest novel Gray Mountain which is published next week.

"But they got online one night and started surfing around, probably had too much to drink or whatever, and pushed the wrong buttons, went too far and got into child porn."

What the hell is this guy thinking?  I know he was discussing how prisons are overcrowded with "not your avg criminal," but shouldn't a guy that makes a living stringing words together know that there is a huge can of worms opened here.

This isn't the 1500s or 1400s when people married off their young daughters to much older gentlemen. We've become somewhat smarter. Ok, maybe not smarter, but we know that you don't marry girls that young to men that old. It just isn't right.

But John opened his mouth and stupid came out in a big way. We all know that you just don't stumble into that kind of nasty. You go looking for it. And being wasted isn't an excuse.

So John, before you open your mouth again, letting more stupid fall out, think about what you are going to say.

I'm sick of people that don't use their brains at all.

No one just pushes the wrong buttons, John, even if they are drunk especially when it comes to this kind of nasty stuff. Oh and are 16 year old girls not important, no matter how old they look?

Another author I have no respect for. He makes huge sums of money writing books but he obviously has no sense whatsoever.

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Hump Day Hunks!

Time for some pretties!